Some Very Quick Pointers Before We Begin

-Do some basic body language improvement
a) Don't look down, look people in the eyes
b) Don't cross your arms or put them in you pockets, if anywhere, on you belt, or in back pocket.
-Learn some basic leading skills
a) Don't wait for others to introduce you, introduce yourself
b) Don't rely on others to make convo, have some ways to be the base of any social interaction.
-Learn some appreciation.. Don't get jealous, appreciate people are doing well.. Don't get cut from rejections, appreciate them etc etc..

-Assume repor.. Know how to make people comfortable..
a) pretend like you are old friends, on a hugging basis
b) pretend like you and her, know each other, and know that you like each other

-A basic way to kiss
a) Do you trust me...Close your eyes.. (kiss)

-A basic way to exchange numbers
a) Talk well with her for a little while, and whilst her attention on you is high, just hand her your phone, and she'll put her number in.

-Have a basic date format
a) Mine is taking a walk, getting to know her, figuring it out from their

-Have a basic ways to hold and touch

a) Touch at the hips, at the hands, at the hair
b) Manipulate her body posistions, like take her hand and place it on her other knee.. Place her hand over her eyes when she looks at you.. Give her a spin.. Whatever is fun and cool at the time
c) Learn to make, touching, a COMFORTING thing, something that, makes it LESS WEIRD not more.. Ie, shaking someones hand is less weird.. Giving someone a touch on the shoulder to say hi, is less weird.. Gesturing towards someone, as you speak, or as they approach you is less weird, and more inviting.

-Have some of your own personal sass.. Don't be a dick to start with, its ok to suplicate a little, especially at the start. Be cool, enjoy peoples company, bring some life. MAKE THE INTERACTION, thats a leader. Learn what is REALLY FUNNY, and learn how to tweak your humor to make it funnier, and slightly cooler
a) Avoid negative humor (unless really funny)
b) Avoid self depricating humor (unless SUPER FUNNY and done in a cool way)
c) Don't be a stand up comedian, but learn how to make those occasional jokes REALLY gut busting.

-Learn how to make someones day
a) Give someone a big appreciative smile, or hug, or compliment just to make their day
b) Best compliment, comes from those you respect.. So build up some respect THEN, give this stuff

-Have some basic respect builders
a) Appreciate things people do
b) Get peoples viewpoints
c) Assume repor, assume similarity
d) Talk to MANY GROUPS, and have a LARGE NETWORK, even if you only "just know them". And introduction to the right people, is PRICELESS.
e) Have something people admire you for

-GET SOME HOBBIES, get something you are deeply passionate for.. Music, poker, martial arts, dancing, art.. Whatever! Start up some hobbies NOW!

-Get some taylored clothes
a) Get only shirts that fit you, no massive Tshirts that don't fit you, no super tight EMO girl pants.
b) Stick to classics
c) Look up a bit of fashion
d) Get some accessories, that look nice: Shoes, watch, ring.. Whatever is your thing (make it you, but make it interesting, something a little flashy, to notice)
e) Get a cool hair cut

- Start exercising, keep fit, start gym.

- Build an external social circle from your original.. Ie, have a few social groups, it never hurts.- Get comfortable around girls, with sex, with people and socialising..
a) Go out to some dance lessons, and humilate yourself there for a little while, say hi to everyone.. Go to some other hobbies, embarrass yourself there.. Till you can go to new places and LOVE IT. Learn to love new things.
b) Just start talking to girls, about their perspective on things, opinions etc, whatever- Have some basic conversation building blocks
a) Make them personal to you, and something YOU would say generally to people
b) Follow your instincts

- Start small
a) Just talk to some girls and get into it, see where it leads
b) Just talk to a group of girls, and see where it leads
c) Try to get this girl to hang later, and see where it leads
See where it leads

- MAKE THE JOURNEY FUN
a) You don't just go to gym, and try to push out the hardest weights.. Relax man, its not about ego.. The start is hard, and after the test period it gets a little easier but you still have to push yourself. Do what you enjoy most.. Its not about what you achieve, you aren't out there to be superman.. Results will come, and you don't mind either way, so you do it the most enjoyable way because PASSION IS WHAT MATTERS THE MOST! Your desire to keep going, is what will dictate your future success.

-SIMPLIFY.. if girls want to complicate, if other guys want to complicate, SIMPLIFY.. "you are completely right, but it still doesn't matter.. Check ya later"

And one last thing, USE YOUR INSTINCTS, be your own man, be your own expert. Don't listen to too much advice.
Too much awareness of anything, SILENCES YOU TO DO NOTHING!
So keep a check on that. There is no super need. Just work your best, and at your most efficient pace, and see where that leads you. Then make a descision from there.

If you start talking to some girls, then you are WAY ahead of the competition, as hardly anybody has the balls to cold approach without some heavy liquor! So go for it, every thing you learn is "a secret" most guys don't have, so have fun!