You want to gain "compliance".
I will often approach, put my hand on the girl gently, when she turns to face me, I will smile. If she smiles back I have compliance.
I may open, pretending that I know her "Hey guys, what are you doing here!" I'll put my arm around them and smile. If they are alright with it, I assume they are complying with my presense, so I go straight into talking and interacting with them as normal..
Basically, we just want to get the person to be on the same wavelength as us. And the best way is to get them to comply to a demand, or to comply to your behavior, or to mimic you.
We want to also inject a productive mood. So that the interaction can flow effortlessly forwards.
Ask a person to hold your phone for a moment, whilst you show somebody something.. Then turn back and smile, and start bantering with the person holding your phone.
"This guy over here is nuts, I'm totally just trying to be nice.. Hey do you mind pretending like we know each other" (take her under your arm) "Hey buddy, gotta go with my girl"..
Fuck around, have some fun.
Beware though, people tend not to comply to lame things. Be a little bold, have an edge.
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