Sex Is The Moral High Ground

This is important to learn before we get started. For without properly understanding WHY, we feel the way we do towards women, we can never truly give ourselves.

Some people believe, the moral high ground is to be romantic to whomever they are attracted to..

They believe, that to be "just after sex" (as they put it) is morally inferior.

I want you to suspend your judgement for a moment, as I explain my experience, and why I believe what I believe..

To go into a relationship with someone, is a tricky thing. Especially if you are not certain they are "the one".

Romance indicates permanence, and is generally associated with "the one".
I guess to some extent, I think of a romantic relationship as hurtful because, if you fool a person into believing in permanence, and break it off with them to fuck some other person or pursue another you believe to be "the one".
That is very cruel.

That person has now been used not just for sex, but also romantically and as an entire person.

Some don't like the whole, just sex thing..
And its touted in the media that "men are dogs, only after sex"..
But their is a valiant side to mens initial instincts. Just as their is a darker side to womens.
I will go on to explain.

The truth is.. Both, "just sex", and romance, have a darker side.

Why get romantic if they aren't the one. You will only end up hurting that person.
I believe romance, requires MUCH higher standards, than that of sex.
Wouldn't you agree?

I can't, and WON'T be romantic with women, until they TRULY TRULY deserve it, until I truly know, they are indeed "the one".
After all, what is more important than your soul and your heart. For that trust to be abused is just.. unforgivable.. And it is for that reason. I believe men are on the right track, with this whole, sex thing. Its not as silly as it sounds to these people in their ivory towers.
It is.. after all is said and done.. romantic.
Sexuality isn't the devil.. It is what allows romance to be held to higher standards than that of sex.

To hold sex to higher standards than romance, is plain and simple, morally wrong.

Sex is morally right. Romance, without harsher standards, is morally wrong. Romance should be reserved to those whom TRULY DESERVE IT. Plus, what is more sexy, than to know, you must deserve romance, and a mans love.

A sexual relationship, is more moral, and more honest, than to simply romance somebody and expose to them who you really are.

Do not sell your soul to be with someone.
Its okay to have sex, whilst not telling people who and what you are on the inside.
That kind of knowledge is very important.

So don't go out, wooing women with flowers, and dates, and telling them your life story. Instead, distract them with fun, and sex, and enjoying eachothers company and embrace.
Don't tell people all about yourself..

That is reserved for much later.
Sex should always come before romance.

Romance, is gold, where sex is silver.
I know women like romance.. We all know this..

But we all know what happens. A girl goes out with a great romantic guy, then fucks the local horndog after years of faithfulness.
That ain't right, okay. I'm not cool with that.

Let women be more patient, and take time to find a mans heart, and only after the time she has demonstrated her true commitment..

Perhaps instead of sex, being on the first night of the wedding. Perhaps, the first expression of who we truly are within our hearts and souls, should be expressed. Perhaps the first act of romance.
Doesn't that just make more sense?

Its important to know this, so that you can fight the good fight. I don't want anymore guys or girls out there, getting hurt, because they through romance around like it was pennies, and clutch sex like it was a diamond.
Lets get real.