Thursday, July 24, 2008

Assume It Always Means Nothing

ASSUME IT ALWAYS MEANS NOTHING

If a girl flirts with you If a girl promises youIf a girl kino's youIf a girl is sucking your cockIf you ask her to do something for you
If you are kissing herIf you are naked walking around your house and you answer the door
Assume it always means nothing..
Great frame, USE IT!

Needy frame is.. Assume it always means something.. Every little thing she does or says.. It means something, and there is a way to manipulate that to my advantage.
No no no..
Even when it DOES, mean something, and that is rare.. STILL ASSUME IT ALWAYS MEANS NOTHING..
Why?Because its a giving frame!
If you give because others NEED, you don't give value, you give neutral or less.
If you give because you assume its nothing to them, you are truly giving with a positive frame.
Example:
If some retard charity guy comes up to me with pity, and then gives me money. He is framing "You are shit.. Here take my money to sooth your shitness!"
So to take the money, I must take the shitty frame, of me being shit.. Thanks alot charity guy!
If some guy assumes, money means nothing to you, kneels down, smiles a big shining smile, look what I got for you. You snatch at it, and he takes it back.. Uh uh! Then gives it to you.
IT CREATES TENSION
IT CREATES POSITIVE FRAMES
IT CREATES THIRST!
A person, will run behind you all day saying "no really, thankyou I needed that, I really did, thankyou so much"To which you laugh, and smile
Cosy: "I'm sure you did .. Maybe I'll see you some other time"
Girl: "Next week!"
Cosy: "Haha, maybe"
Don't assume it means shit loads to her, or them, and you will be able to be the prize without being a patronising person
Also, doing things this way, enables you TO STOP PATTING YOURSELF ON THE BACK FOR EVERY DEED YOU DO!
Which is important for being a less angry person.
Angry people, always scream about all the good they do for others, and never get thanks for. So don't assume people need your charity and value.
Then you will have value..
Confusing no?
We could discuss it all day but.. Its not confusing cuz I gave you the mindframe!

ASSUME IT ALWAYS MEANS NOTHING

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