Make The Moves

I'm of course not the first to ever have thought of this I must give entire credit of this post to a person known by the alias of "Ockwick", and I should also thank "Mrsex4UNyc"

* Women are almost incapable of approaching men they are attracted to, they're too afraid of rejection and being seen as slutty
* Women are almost incapable of making any move, escalating, etc, they're too afraid of rejection and being seen as slutty
(OF Course there are exceptions, but the general tendencies are as such!)
* And yet, women love sex just the same as us guys

You must make the moves, for women.
You must understand, that if she wants to kiss you, you need to kiss her, and give her opportunities to do things with you.

Some Terms You Will Need To Understand
- IOIs (indicators of interest), these are direct displays from the woman that she is interested, could be smiling at you, looking into your eyes, touching her hair, giving you her full attention, touching you.. Etc etc
- Escalation (the act of moving the interaction forwards), something like kissing a girl for the first time is considered escalation, talking about the context of being lovers, is escalation.. Because you are escalating towards sexuality. Escalation is the main principle with women. You must be always escalating to some degree. And this is what men fear the most. Escalating.
- SOIs (signals of intent) "are you single", "I think you are sexy", things like this are direct expressions of intent, similar to IOIs, however intentionally meant to be understood.

Understanding some basic escalation principles.
1) Let me paint you a picture. Their is a girl, and she likes a shy boy. She gives off IOI's, and the boy likes it, yet the shy boy does nothing. How is she to CHANGE this boy into a man, with IOI's? The truth is, no matter how many IOI's she throws, how much interest she throws, she will never change a boy into a man.
This is principle number ONE, nothing a girl can do, will change WHO YOU ARE BEING. SHE CAN'T CHANGE YOU WITH IOI's IF THATS WHO YOU ARE BEING! Waiting for a million IOI's won't ever work to change your approach to women.
FIRST, you must be the man that IOI's affect. The kind of guy, that already doesn't need to be changed by IOI's.
- Solution:
a) First step is understanding, IOI's from a woman, WON'T change you, even though you tell yourself it will.
b) Suck that up, and realise you must act, or perhaps even be ready to escalate without IOI's.. Not in an aggressive manner, but you must realise that if you are not this guy, girls can only be rejected by you.. Assume IOI's, if it seems appropriate.
If you think she should like you, assume they are there, even the best of us miss them.
A kiss, is about the ONLY way, I accept that (ok, maybe they weren't there, but it was good I checked!)
- Have you figured out, how you react to IOI's.. How would you react to IOI's.. What would you act like, to a girl, who gave you all you needed with IOI's and SOI's. Please don't tell me, keep snickering and laughing cuz you are uncomfortable, and then NOT escalate with her! GRRRRAAAAAAGGGGGHHHHH!
Do this right now if you haven't already.. Write down, your plan, of action, and what you intend to do, WHEN YOU GET SOLID MYTHICAL IOI's.. Now that is what you need to be ALL THE TIME
2) Escalation principle number 2:
CONNECTION
If what she does, cannot affect you, or tell you, she wants you to fuck her. She isn't going to feel very sexually safe.
Do things, all the time, all be it small, give women small massages, touches on their belly, caresses, to give them a CLEAR way to tell you "I'm horny for you".
When I say hello to women, my hands slip down their waste, just on the edge between ass and lower back. I am slightly slower, slightly more embracing than normal, to allow her the time necessary, and the openings to give me IOI's.
GIVE IOI OPENINGS.This is not the same as ASKING PERMISSION FOR SEX!
This is different, and MUCH BETTER!
I always do these things.. Like start playing with her hair, for no reason, some part of my body bumping into hers as I speak, coming in close so she can touch me, flirting so she can flirt back.

3) The number 3 escalation principle is this:
Know that women HAVE TO SAY THEY DON'T LIKE YOU.
Know that I as a man, also say I DON'T LIKE YOU, to her.
Sometimes, a girl and I could be very sarcastic to eachother, and it seems like we don't like each other, but we always come together to be a little somethin somethin.
Their is naturally always going to be signs of disinterest, for it is how we keep our pride intact!
What is our first instinct with women?
Ewwww, I don't like girls...What is our first instinct when we think a girl doesn't like us?
Ewwww, I don't like her...
This is natural, and you gotta give girls leeway for this, and yourself.
Alot of girls might, fake, not answering your calls etc.. And then when you ask them to admit they were just faking, will have to, to save their pride say "no" and act congruent with that.
ALWAYS GIVE A GIRL ROOM NOT TO LIKE YOU. Its common courtesy.
Think of it like ettiquette.
People are rude if they directly express like, or force someone to show their feelings.
NEVER FORGET, GIVE A GIRL ROOM NOT TO LIKE YOU.
Alot of girls I get with, may even give me dirty looks, and act like they don't like me. Even when I play "nice game", because I've always given them that room, otherwise you will crash and burn REAL FAST!
Classic example:
The other day, I'm talking to this girl, and I shout out "hey, STUPID" (I'm being lame here) she turns around and gives me an evil little playful look and says "WHAT!".
I say "haha, so you go by stupid now do you", to which she replied "no.. I was just giving you a dirty look"..And WHY do you think she was so eager to turn around and give me a dirty look? Why do you think she was so eager to say she didn't like me.
So you see, girls that like you NEED THIS ROOM!
She knew she was slightly caught out there, and tried to recalibrate, and I also helped her out, by not noticing her fuck up.
Yes thats right, I HELP girls, make me think, she doesn't like me.. Its like par for the course not to seem to interested.
Like you don't want to appear too interested, neither does she. OBVIOUS, so give her the room she needs.
4) Escalation principle NUMBER 4:
How do you know, she doesn't like you!
YOU CAN'T KNOW THIS! EVER!
I learnt this the hard way.. I talked and spent all this effort on these girls, and then walked away cuz I thought they weren't interested. Only to find out later, THEY WERE TOTALLY INTO IT!I'd leave, because a girl was giving me pressure to leave her place. Later her friend tells me, "You shocked the fuck out of my friend by leaving.. You were SOOOO getting laid"

You get me, I said to myself, OK! LEARN TO STAY! Later on, another situation arose, and I go, oh she doesn't like me and leave. Only to hear "you were so getting laid" again!

I can't tell you how many missed lays, missed kisses, missed opportunities I had.
Lesson of the story was, ALWAYS MAKE THE MOVE.

Summary:
1) Assume she is interested, and act like it
2) Give her chances to show she likes you
3) Give a girl room to "not like you", its okay for her to display that
4) ALWAYS MAKE THE MOVE