Becoming a more generous guy, VIA LEADING.
Leadership, is the way we want you to behave, to help those around you. We do NOT, want you running around, just submitting to whatever people tell you to do. Copping out, is not a nice thing for other people. Its bad for them and its bad for you. You must stand up and be a man!
Leading should not be confused with being "a nice guy" who just cops out, and lets chips fall where they may.
YOU MUST LEAD, and leading is almost ALWAYS NICE AND WARM AND POWERFUL, even when its a little mean.
Alot of people confuse the two as the same thing. But to me, its either COP OUT, or LEAD.
Leading, to me means, having a strong depth of character. An internal well of strength pouring from you. Standing over people, but not harming them. But instead leading, and pouring out a sense of comfort and control of self. Stopping JUST before the edge.
Leading is generally, abundant, generous, etc.. Not to be confused with copping out, "oh hey sweety, anything I can do for you".
Girl: AH! NO!
An ADVENTUROUS guy, that leads alot, with a bit of a seducer to him (way with words and women) will get laid alot.. And he will have alot of fun.
Let Me Tell You About A Leading Technique I Call Comfort Projection:
- By making something comfortable that would normally be uncomfortable.
- By acting comfortably in a situation that would make others uncomfortable.
- By displaying to others how to act comfortably in a situation.
Make comfortable, what would normally not be so.
Do things that people would find uncomfortable and MAKE IT comfortable.
Display you have no issues.
By doing this, you project to others, how they can behave around you.
You set an example.
This is not only attractive, it is leading. And it should be the main source of your "kindness to others". Replacing "Copping out and acting nice".. Erase "acting nice" and replace it with "projecting comfort".
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