Thursday, July 24, 2008

Don't Focus On What One Person Thinks Of You

Okay, stopping some pussiness! STAT!And I mean right NOW!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tPUpxIBkcjM&feature=related

Thinking about your looks, what you can do to please, oneitis, focusing on how to get the girl..

Okay, now you know the subject.
I want you to know, that focusing on what you look like, is PART OF ONEITIS.
And is heavily related to it. As in a stunning display, Mika demonstrates, in this clip.
See how his concept of looks, and actions, are tied in with his stalking!
Let us call it Lookitis.
Focusing on how pretty you are, how desirable you are, and how that means you can get THE ONE GIRL. The only one you focus on.

Its not good practice to focus on yourself, your own looks, and whether you think you are good enough. Looks are subjective, if you focus on MANY WOMEN, and on your game AS A WHOLE, you will not care about looks or who you are..WHY?
Because, quite frankly, ALOT OF GIRLS LIKE IT!
Looks are subjective, there are alot of girls whom like it, some who don't.
Looks are ONLY a problem, when it comes down to ONE GIRL. THE GIRL. The focus of your intention.. YOUR TARGET!(For those of you who don't know, focusing on a girl gives you oneitis.. Thinking about her, changing for her etc QUIT IT! :P)

Ok, so what I am saying is.
Oneitis, and Lookitis, are like cousins.
You care how you look, because you WANT TO GET THE GIRL YOU FOCUS ON.
Looks are subjective..If you like girls, not girl, you will understand, your looks and personality don't matter.
Because ONLY WITH THE APPLICATION OF FOCUSING ON ONE GIRL, does looks matter, does your personality matter!

Understanding oneitis, to me it was a LIFE SAVER, one of the most brilliant terms, for saving people alot of pain, and reducing pussiness forever. Oneitis is caused by focusing on one girl. Thinking about her etc, gaming her specifically. Then comes the ambush of emotions that screws you sideways!
Lookitis is also caused by focusing on one girl. Gaming one girl or type of girl specifically (specifically girls that don't like you).
Lookitis, is pathetic, and pointless. And pure pussy material.
I don't even care that getting your looks handled makes you better with women.
You aren't out to impress any one particular woman, you are out because that is who you are as a whole. Your looks aren't for those you focus on and target to be your woman.
Don't focus on individual opinions.

THEN you are free, of ever caring, about what you look like, or what your personality is percieved like by other people.

This isn't something that goes away, its part of living.. Oneitis and lookitis, manifest themselves. And you must get rid of them. First by realising they are just oneitis/lookitis, and second by realising, they are caused by focusing on ONE THING, ONE PERSON, ONE TARGET.
If one target matters to you. For no truly TRULY, good reason. Its lookitis, or oneitis CENTRAL. Where all needy little boys go to DIE!

Don't ever focus on what one person thinks of you.. And don't ever focus on one person.. Especially if they are very attractive.

1 comment:

sad_woman said...

I hate You Cosy. Really.
Sad woman.